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What it means to be a nice girl

Basically, putting the needs of others before your own. For instance:

Doing the “right thing” even if you don’t want to
Letting other people encroach on your personal space and boundaries, and not standing up for yourself and your needs until they've egregiously overstepped 
Second-guessing yourself and your intuitions while giving others the benefit of the doubt
Comforting others (and taking on their emotional/etc. burdens!) even when you’re not in the right/best mental state to do so
Doing things that are inconvenient, annoying, or downright bad to you because they make someone else’s life (even slightly) better

Fuck being a nice girl.